At 57 Pic updates, MPEG still not right though - Help???

[cowgirl]

I currently am at 57 Photo updates however I have many clips I'd like to add. Apparently I still am not doing them correctly. Any advise on how to get my MPEG's correct so I can upload them will be greatly appreciated. Now wit the new Windows update everytime I even try to put a clip, mpeg, or video in my ftp it rejects saying a program is not compatable.
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