How to be a good fan?

[Elton.M]

Maybe I'll turn the conversation a little upside down now, but...

Dear ladies and lovely models, tell me what kind of demands and wishes you have for your own fans?
Can you teach me, how to become a good and always better fan for you?

All of you are doing a really great and wonderful job!

[SultrySerenaSC2]

Maybe I'll turn the conversation a little upside down now, but...

Dear ladies and lovely models, tell me what kind of demands and wishes you have for your own fans?
Can you teach me, how to become a good and always better fan for you?

All of you are doing a really great and wonderful job!

Hi Elton,
I'd have to say that I honestly don't have any "demands" for my fans. And not sure I could state that I have "wishes" either because the simple fact that there are fans who appreciate my content, and either take the time to write me, letting me know that they are enjoying themselves while looking at me, or those who purchase memberships, or videos or do all three things, that is truly a big compliment!

I would say that the biggest message I would love to get out to my fans and members, is that I don't know who's who. Meaning I don't keep a list of my members, so when I read my email, I'm not favoring "members" emails over fans'. I also don't respond to all of my email. I have a very full and active life and sitting on my computer responding to all of my emails just doesn't work for me. I do try and reply to some emails but honestly, even though I read them all, when I feel overwhelmed, I delete the ones in my inbox and start over. It's nothing against any of you guys. I just don't have the time to answer every email because I refuse to paste a standard, short, generic response to you guys. When I do write back, it's a guaranteed personal response. Sometimes I'll be flirty, sometimes I may talk about what's going on in my world, sometimes it'll be a quick thank you! But it's never a copy/paste response and each response is directed to the one I'm replying to.
I wish I had more time to give to my emails, but it's just not possible.

I try and let fans know that they can message me here on the forum, or even ask me to chat with them. But it seems like alot of fans just want me to write paragraphs back to them in an email and get feelings hurt if I don't. And then there are guys who immediately want to have me participate back and forth in their fetish porn email. If I'm in the mood then sometimes I'm ok with that as long as you are a member cuz geeze I'm not talking nasty to a minor and your membership is how the legal thing protects me. But just don't expect it.

I think some fans think their memberships get them the full attention of the charm whenever they want it, whether it's email responses, or directions on what type of photos to post. I'm not talking about requests, but I've had some that because they joined my site, they somehow feel I owe them something. And that's frustrating to me. I don't require a membership to email with me, or speak to me here on the forum. A membership is only required to see my club content because I honestly give out alot in the free

So to be to the point, my "wishes" for fans would be to understand that if a charm doesn't write you back, that's not really directed at you. Each charm runs their site a different way. I would ask that fans and members both, understand that.

[BJMatureSC2]

I do have one thing that I wish my members and non members would pay attention to - It's not really a demand, but it sure would help things a lot. I get tons of emails asking me questions that I have taken the time to supply the answers to in my Bio or FAQ's. I bet I'm not alone in wishing the same for many of you ladies, am I correct?

[Italian Lace SC4]

For me it is a fan who maintains a reasonable balance of what they expect from me with what they contribute to my effort. A great fan is someone who keeps their account rebilling and doesn't have unrealistic expectations on what he gets for his membership. What I sell on SC is my content, not my time. Rebilling customers that email me every now and then make my day and I love chatting with them. The opposite end of that is someone who rarely or never makes purchases, but wants constant attention by email or other means. That is unfair and not respectful of my time. I have a lot of fun being a Charm, but it does take a lot of work and a lot of time to keep my site updated. Paying customers are a necessity to keep it going, and I also offer other ways to have direct contact with me in which my time IS paid for (pay per minute calls, paid sexting, cam shows, etc.) that help subsidize my lifestyle so that I can afford to keep making content. I love getting to know my fans better through these means and we have a lot of fun with that.

This isn't to say that fans who have not yet purchased from my site should not email me. It is absolutely fine to email me saying hi, telling me about yourself, asking questions about my site before purchasing, or just offering a compliment, and I do try to respond to all of my email. I just cannot email back and forth all day if I am not making money, as I have to spend my time doing things that "keep the ship afloat," and a good fan understands that. There are lots of fans who just lurk and check out the free pics for years and they keep coming back to see the new updates, but they never purchase a membership. That's fine, too, as long as they don't expect personal attention from me if they won't subscribe to my site.

[sinfullysxyoneSC2]

I would have to say that for the most part myself and all the other charms just want to be acknowledged and notice for the work we do. Believe it or not what we do adds to our daily work load, so by doing this it shows how much we enjoy and love what we do.

Acknowledgement in the form of email, message, tips, membership, wish list items sent; all shows that you care.

Love Always

Sinfully Sxy One