RosiePieCharm wrote:I LOVE anal! Whoever thinks it's just male-sided is just silly. It's true not everyone likes anal and most girls are raised in a way that anal is a no-no (among other reasons I'm sure), and it's probably also true that normally the guy is the one to suggest it first. But that doesn't mean there is no pleasure for the lady! It's a completely different orgasm to me and way worth the effort. <3
I only wish I've done anal more for the camera!
I can believe a lot of women (and men) have misconceptions about it, actually. First of all, I don't think it's usually portrayed correctly. Most that I've seen is usually way too rough, and I find that depressing and can't be turned on by it. It's very rare for it to be associated with ideas of romance, love and tender passion, but as a "worshipper" that's exactly how I think it should be. You hardly ever see the time taken with foreplay and making her feel relaxed, not enough use of wet tongue and finger for teasing, and almost no concept of tenderness. It's usually always talked about as "f*cking" but almost never as "making love", well, I am a true believer in what turns her on should be what turns him on, and there is such a thing as anal love-making, gentle and tender, with her wants and needs always coming first. She should be taking control and always setting the pace. With enough understanding and enough preparation, especially saliva and jelly, it's possible to be tender.
Hygeine is another issue, and an understandable one, but these issues can be avoided and I think it's a nice thing for a guy to prove to her that she is so wonderful and beautiful, nothing could ever be dirty about her, nothing about her could ever turn him off, and she is perfect.
Sorry I'm dribbling again... Oh RosiePie, you really got me going!