R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

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R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby SultrySerenaSC2 » Tue Jun 02, 2020 12:47 am

My dear friend, lm443, passed away recently.

We "met" when he became a member of my site back in 2005. And over the next 15 years, we developed a trusted, and more personal friendship. We never met in person. But became close friends all the same.

lm443 was a man who adored the charm models and the SC site. A fan and member to several charms over the years. He posted on our forum and was always there to flirt with me, or to call me "beautiful".

It's difficult when a friendship is developed over "porn". Models have to be careful of how much they reveal about themselves. And fans/members have to be careful not to jeopardize their marriage. And because of that secret part of his life, I'm unable to offer my condolences to his family. I discovered his passing with the help of "google". Having not heard from him in over a month, and knowing of his recent and serious, health issues, I decided to google his name and hometown.

And I found his obituary.

We kept in touch for 15 years. Talking on the phone a few times, and Emailing often...….Sometimes daily, sometimes weekly, and in the past year or so, only monthly. He was having major health problems and was in and out of the hospital a lot, not able to write. I won't lie and say that his passing doesn't mean anything to me. Even though we had a pen pal relationship, I had let him be privy to some of my personal life, and he had shared his with me. So that friendship was more than just "porn". It was a real, legit and meaningful 15 year friendship. One started from porn, but one blooming into a true mainstream friendship.

You will be missed Lou.
You had an amazing life, were an amazing person. And I'm a better person for having the pleasure of knowing you.
RIP Lou.
Sending final BIG KISSES to you.
Love, "Serena"
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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby martinae » Tue Jun 02, 2020 7:30 am

Serena-

Thanks hor passing this on. I remember some of his posts on here.. seemed like a great guy. I hope you are doing ok. Thanks for sharing your story with him as well
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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby SultrySerenaSC2 » Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:48 am

martinae wrote:Serena-

Thanks hor passing this on. I remember some of his posts on here.. seemed like a great guy. I hope you are doing ok. Thanks for sharing your story with him as well


Thanks for posting sweetie :X
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Postby martinae » Tue Jun 02, 2020 5:02 pm

Sc is really a community much more than an amateur site. I know we all don't agree 100% on everything but everyone here that ive met is a good peeson.. im just glad i can be a part of it.

Hope you are doing ok.. thoughts and prayers to all his friends and family
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Postby Italian Lace SC4 » Tue Jun 02, 2020 5:17 pm

I'm so sorry you lost your friend, Serena :'(
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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby SultrySerenaSC2 » Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:21 pm

Thank you Lace.
Lou was a good guy. Just getting over two major surgeries.....He had last written me on the 20th of April and was doing well. His obit says he passed away on the 26th. Whatever happened to him was unexpected and sudden. I only hope it was quick and painless.
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Postby mrsleatherSC3 » Wed Jun 03, 2020 3:50 am

Thanks for sharing this Serena. Iam sorry for your loss.
It must be difficult when someone you've got to know online suddenly stops communicating and you have to google search whats happened to him. I too, like I am sure many sc models, have developed friendships and regular communications with fans and models online and you do miss them when it just stops.
Its another example of how we really do touch some peoples lives and they ours.
Take care Serena xxx
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Postby AveryKash » Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:50 am

R.I.P seems like there are so many tragic losses this year. 2020 is a year to be thankful for what we have and those that have been apart of our lives.


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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby vanillacreamSC1 » Tue Jun 09, 2020 11:42 pm

Sorry to hear about the loss. Friendship comes in all shapes and sizes :-)
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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby ohalexSC22 » Sat Jun 13, 2020 3:14 pm

Lou was such a sweet guy. And we sometimes come to care too much about these fellas. We can't help but have a soft spot for these wonderful characters. His life was richer for having spent time with you Sultry, and your life was richer for having met such a devoted, caring friend.

We end up hurting when we lose them but never stop caring. That's what makes us special.

Love and healing hugs,
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Too much of a good thing can be WONderful...

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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby AlexanderHood » Sun Jun 14, 2020 7:06 am

Thank you for sharing this with us Serena. Nice words. I feel sorry about your loss. RIP Lou.
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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby gman36 » Wed Jul 01, 2020 7:57 am

My Chatty Patty,

I've just seen this. I am so sorry to read that Lou has passed away. From our conversations, I know just how much a part of your life he had become. My thoughts and prayers are with you now, as they always are.

CB :YMHUG:
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Re: R.I.P. lm443 - You will be missed

Postby sweetsexymama » Thu Jul 02, 2020 4:43 pm

Thoughts and prayers
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