The_Mansion wrote:What would you say is your not so secret most favourite kink you would check out on a first date?
Most of my kinks would not be considered "first date" fare. I enjoy being tied and spanked, but that is not something likely to come up on a first date. Exhibitionism might come into play, and surely has. You also have to realize that I'm happily married and while we swing, we aren't likely to swap partners when meeting another couple for the first time. It's really not a common occurrence in our area. I guess you could call first encounters with other couples as first dates. In a way, meeting another couple who swing for possible sex is in itself a bit kinky, don't you think? Usually, I'm pretty careful about who I bed, but there have been some exceptions. And truly, sometimes this girl can't give it away when she wants to, LOL.
Last year, while we and another couple that we're very good friends with (fellow swingers) were listening to a local band at a medium sized club, my girlfriend and I danced with a couple of young nerdy types that were standing next to us. We likely had twenty-five years on them. We could tell they were having a good time, very interested in more, and were surprised our husbands were letting us cut up like we were. So we talked it over with our husbands and decided to approach them about getting a hotel room. The hubbies were just going to watch the fun and we made that clear when we propositioned them. Those two guys couldn't believe it and just couldn't get past how strange an offer it was. Maybe they thought we were going to rob them or something. So, short story, they missed out.