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Charm Life
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Sat Feb 11, 2012 6:55 amby hook
Since becoming A Charm, What has been the Pros and Cons of Having A Site. And How Has It Changed Your Life. I Know As A Fan Just Getting To Know Some Of Yall Thru E-Mails Has Been A Lot of Fun For Me.
Re: Charm Life
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Sat Feb 11, 2012 11:36 amby Bea Brite SC2
hook wrote:Since becoming A Charm, What has been the Pros and Cons of Having A Site. And How Has It Changed Your Life. I Know As A Fan Just Getting To Know Some Of Yall Thru E-Mails Has Been A Lot of Fun For Me.
I love being in front of the camera and I have a lot of fun doing it, but it is also a lot of work. You don't just decide to shoot an update, at least I don't. I have to decide on what to wear, where to shoot it, what I want the update to portray and then the actual shoot takes a lot out of me. Posing isn't easy, try it sometime in stiletto heels in a 100 degree temperatures or the humidity through the roof or so cold outside you're gettin goosebumps while shooting inside. Its not cheap either. Not if you want to look really sexy. The lingerie and shoes are enough to break the bank sometimes. But is it worth it? Damn Straight!!! As for changing my life? I went from a lady with poor self-esteem to one who can walk down the strret with a spring in her step and if you don't like BBWs tough, because I'm sexy as hell and I have the fans to prove it. Even though the economy has taken a big bite out of what I make, it still gives me the money to indulge in somethings I wouldn't be able to other wise, remember those shoes and that lingerie I was talkin' about? I have a thing for both and without SC I wouldn't have either. I love what I do and apparently enough of you do to to keep me in front of the camera.
Re: Charm Life
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Sat Feb 11, 2012 4:27 pmby Just Me SC3
Very nicely said BB!
Truly a lady, inside and out!
Kisses from Just Me xxx
Re: Charm Life
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Mon Feb 13, 2012 12:21 amby innesSC1
Being a charm has helped me be a LOT more open with my sexuality ... got me to try a lot of new things in my sex life. And I keep learning and learning about new fetishes which is kinda interesting, there are tons of things that I never would have thought of!
Ahhh I remember the days where I couldn't say the word "sex" without blushing ... lol!
xxx
Re: Charm Life
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Mon Feb 13, 2012 2:34 pmby RosiePieCharm
Thank you for making this thread! I LOVE being a charm! I've been excited since day one. It's really great to be able to express my sexiness and have people really appreciate it. I love the friends I've made through fan emails. Getting to know my fans is the very best. I can't wait to reply to my emails! I especially love doing custom photos or videos because when I send them to my fan and the fan is so happy to see a job well done it's.. Well it's almost like Christmas for that little second! It's making someone happy, and I love that. Not even just through customs though. When I get emails (and now posts on this board too) from people who are happy with a photo set or video it makes me really excited. I've always wanted to be a charm, since I heard about it when I was 17. It's a dream cum true! Hehe.
The only bad part about being a Charm is when I get hate mail. It really makes me sad when people message me about how they hate my chubbiness, the way I paint my toes, my hair, my piercings, or anything like that. I don't get them very often but sometimes mean people email me and I just don't see why they bothered. Why try to hurt my feelings, you know? There are plenty of other girls on SC (and some GREAT guys), so go find someone you like!
Re: Charm Life
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Mon Feb 13, 2012 3:41 pmby hook
Hey don't ever let anyone run you off from doing what you like.I almost quit the this measage board this morning over nasty post, but a good friend showed me the light. If its not against the law then go for it. All of you charms are are great. It takes a lot of corage to do what yall do. As a fan I just want to say thank you.
Re: Charm Life
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Mon Feb 13, 2012 4:00 pmby Just Me SC3
Very well said, just like a true Gentleman!
That's why I love ya big guy...
Special kisses from Just Me XXX
Re: Charm Life
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Mon Mar 05, 2012 9:39 amby VixenSC2
I think there are alot of ways been a charm changes your lifestyle, instead of poseing for a few pics now and then for hubby I Have to plan out Updates and shoot time to fit them all in. I also have accumilated a vast wardrope of clothing and underwear and more uniforms than I can fit in a sack, not that I mind I love been a charm, and it certainly makes your sex life a little more fun, all those new toys and objects to have fun with.
Re: Charm Life
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Mon Mar 05, 2012 9:07 pmby Gregors
Good topic and great insight from some of the SC gals. What saddens me is what Rosie touched on, getting hate mail. Couldn't imagine sending someone a message to be negative. What is the point? SC caters to all tastes. There is no need for anyone to message someone in a negative way. They must have some serious self esteem issues to go to that length. To those SC gals who have received messages like that, keep doing what you are doing.
Re: Charm Life
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Mon Mar 05, 2012 11:06 pmby RosiePieCharm
Thank you Gregors.
I don't let it get to me. I assume these people just get off on being jerks.
Re: Charm Life
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Tue Mar 06, 2012 12:21 pmby hook
Andee. You are great. All of the charms that are on This board are great. You have something that poltitions don't have.you are honest. Don't ever let the people that would rather tear people down git ya down. That goes for all charms. The charms that visit this board are Top Shelve. I for one as A fan want to say Thank You. The Charms that visit this board answer e-mail, they tweet, they face book and have blogs that we follow. They also update regular. As a fan of Southern Charms I Thank all of you for sharing a small part of your life with us. Yall make the fans feel included in your sites by gitting there ideas, in turn it will only make your sites better. O by the way congratulations Andee on Ten Years.
Re: Charm Life
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Wed Mar 07, 2012 9:46 amby LondonCalling
Andee,
I know we have chatted about this very thing a number of times but theres a whole bunch of us who are way more grateful for the choices you have made. Politics, as we have also chatted on, isn't worth much anymore...liars, cheats, swindlers and swine. You're doing better by changing our dismal lives one sexy photo at a time. And damn you got some sexy photos!!
LC
xo
Re: Charm Life
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Sat May 12, 2012 7:54 amby cinnamonbunSC3
I love doing the shoots but I always feel embarrassed that my photos are never as bright or clear as other charms. Practice makes perfect. Otherwise I get really excited when I think of a new photo shoot idea and can't wait to shoot it and get it posted.
Re: Charm Life
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Mon May 14, 2012 2:50 amby Suzzanne
Bea Brite SC2 wrote:hook wrote:Since becoming A Charm, What has been the Pros and Cons of Having A Site. And How Has It Changed Your Life. I Know As A Fan Just Getting To Know Some Of Yall Thru E-Mails Has Been A Lot of Fun For Me.
I love being in front of the camera and I have a lot of fun doing it, but it is also a lot of work. You don't just decide to shoot an update, at least I don't. I have to decide on what to wear, where to shoot it, what I want the update to portray and then the actual shoot takes a lot out of me. Posing isn't easy, try it sometime in stiletto heels in a 100 degree temperatures or the humidity through the roof or so cold outside you're gettin goosebumps while shooting inside. Its not cheap either. Not if you want to look really sexy. The lingerie and shoes are enough to break the bank sometimes. But is it worth it? Damn Straight!!! As for changing my life? I went from a lady with poor self-esteem to one who can walk down the strret with a spring in her step and if you don't like BBWs tough, because I'm sexy as hell and I have the fans to prove it. Even though the economy has taken a big bite out of what I make, it still gives me the money to indulge in somethings I wouldn't be able to other wise, remember those shoes and that lingerie I was talkin' about? I have a thing for both and without SC I wouldn't have either. I love what I do and apparently enough of you do to to keep me in front of the camera.
Go Bea Brite you hit the nail right on the head!
Suzz xxx
Re: Charm Life
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Sun Jun 24, 2012 2:53 amby bbwmelsc3
I have been a charm sense 2009! Looking back it has changed me! My hubby too! I become more sexual! I loved sex but now I feel horny all the time! I have met a few charms and gents! Had lots of fun! I had my first threesome with two guys! I loved it! Had to do it some more. I feel more open with who I am! I keep SC from my family! My husband told a few of his co-workers about what I do. Theres more work to it then I expected! A lot of time and money to it too! I have no charms near me so its mostly solo! So I have to get creative and keep things new! Lingerie, heels, make up, camera, setting up props, planning what to wear where to shoot! I love it and is the best choice I've made. I have made many new friends! I learned a lot of things too! I am glad I became a charm!
Re: Charm Life
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Thu Mar 14, 2013 1:43 amby roxysyn
I am a different person sort of. I did not like my body as much 7 years ago. I started out doing this just to have fun and I still am
I love doing this, it is what keeps me going. It is my fun time
I could not show as much back then. I tried really hard when I was younger to be something I am not. I tried to fit in and be skinny lol a fat girl tiring to be skinny I can laugh at myself now. But it is sad, I was that way. I wish all big girls could do this just once so they could know that you can be who you are, curvy and nerdy and it is awesome. Most people dont look down on you they love it. It helped me love myself and I so thank SC for that. There is awesome charms on here and one is even my sister. I love what I do, I love looking for new outfits and being sexy as a big girl.
It is awesome!!!
Thank you SC for my charm life
Re: Charm Life
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Thu Mar 14, 2013 2:36 pmby hook
Wow I started this tread a year ago and it is still going , lots of great stories from lots of beautiful women, y'all are all ladies and superstars in my book so keep on doing what y'all are doing, I enjoy all of your updates, thanks for sharing this part of your lives with us fans, your all winners
Re: Charm Life
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Tue Apr 02, 2013 6:39 pmby bbwmelsc3
PROS: I have fun! I love it! I also get to go Heel Shopping! Lots of lingeire! Lots of sex toys! I love using my check for new ones all the time! I meet new people to shoot with from time to time! I also have made a lot of friends with some of the charms! I actually started feeling better about myself! What I hated about myself people love! I hated my weight and big belly! Then tried not to show my belly! Thena guy emailed saying he loved my rolls! Lots of compliments on my big body in emails has helped my self esteem too! It also spiced up things with my marriage! As I am undressing for the camera it turns my husband on!
Cons: I can't shoot at home right now! So I have been shooting at hotels! Currently living with family who has no clue what I do! So its hard to get alone time to shoot! I also have totes and totes of porn gear! So I have to find room for new things! Ive became a heel and lingerie hoarder! Also, When I go to a store I think oh this would be fun in a update! So have to buy it! So, that adds up!
Re: Charm Life
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Thu Apr 04, 2013 2:04 pmby DelilahSC3
Many years ago, I had a few sexy lil pics taken of me and just shied from it cause I just didn't feel like I was at all, sexy or that really nice looking. I was very self-conscious about this fat or that...and it was hard. A bf got me to take more pics tho' for him, sexy ones, in various outfits and then he used to tease me about modeling and introduced me to a site or two and then he up and posted them and I was so shocked and upset and then I saw the feedback and just blushed and felt so different! I began to see myself through thru their eyes a bit. I still shied away tho' until years later...different bf, tore up my self esteem and a friend of mine introduced me to SC and got me to join and I started seeing myself again thru different eyes, thru the eyes of the camera and oh wow how my pics changed and I started to go from hating 70 out of 100 pics to liking 70 out of 100 pics! LOL
I left due to stalkers but then decided to come back after that other bf and I ended and tho' my self esteem wasn't so destroyed, I still love the emails that all the sweet fans write to me and I've had fun with the updates now. I've learned to draw my boundaries better and not let anyone twist my arm into doing anything I don't want to or do not feel comfortable doing.
I have lots of things I want to do, just need the time to edit and do them.
This is kept quiet from most who know me, and that's ok, I am having fun with it!