Your story of being a SC model

[CrumblingPerv]

While you are all undoubtedly gorgeous in your own unique ways, I can't be the only one here wondering more about the woman within. So I thought it would be fun if our ladies would shed a little light on how SC is a part of their lives. Here are some ideas for questions, or feel free to answer your own:

- what made you decide that you wanted to become a SC model?
- has the experience been what you hoped/anticipated it would be?
- has there been anything you have encountered whilst being a model that you did not expect?
- what have been your best memories? and what have been your worst?
- in what ways, if any, has the experience changed you?

[wendymeadowssc2]

I will throw my hand in this one....

- what made you decide that you wanted to become a SC model? I became an SC model because I was looking for something to make some additional money that I didn't have to spend a lot of money on to join like a DS company and not a second job that I would have to work into my schedule. A friend of mine from my earlier swinger days was a model at the time and she suggested it. My husband had a fairly nice digital SLR camera already and was already taking sexy photos of me all the time. So I said why the hell not?
- has the experience been what you hoped/anticipated it would be? I think it has been more than what I hoped or anticipated. I never thought I would get to meet so many cool men and women, let alone shoot photos with them.
- has there been anything you have encountered whilst being a model that you did not expect? I did not expect to have a companionship with some of my fans and members that I have. There are several of you that I email on a weekly basis. When I go MIA, ya'll are super understanding and I feel ok telling you what is going on that you aren't going to judge me for being a terrible human being. I feel blessed that I have come to know some of you all the way that I have.
- what have been your best memories? and what have been your worst? Some of my best memories are from my earlier years on the site when I lived in Florida. I loved getting together with several charms at a time and knocking a bunch of updates out, swapping stories and ideas. When I moved to MD, I had a charm that I shot with for awhile that I would travel to her area to shoot with her. Those were fun times also, but she has since let her site go inactive. I think the worst memories are when I was having health problems and I pushed myself to continue my site and not take a break. I can actually look back at the photos and see that I didn't smile a lot. I think I smile a lot more in my sets now.
- in what ways, if any, has the experience changed you? I think this experience has allowed me to become less introverted. I used to have a hard time talking to people and find myself more social now.

[SultrySerenaSC2]

While you are all undoubtedly gorgeous in your own unique ways, I can't be the only one here wondering more about the woman within. So I thought it would be fun if our ladies would shed a little light on how SC is a part of their lives. Here are some ideas for questions, or feel free to answer your own:

- what made you decide that you wanted to become a SC model?
- has the experience been what you hoped/anticipated it would be?
- has there been anything you have encountered whilst being a model that you did not expect?
- what have been your best memories? and what have been your worst?
- in what ways, if any, has the experience changed you?

SC is such a BIG part of my life. Funny thing is everytime my husband and I go someplace, camping, to Florida, a weekend away, etc, we always take the cameras! It's so incorporated into our lives that it just seems natural.

My husband asked me to send in photos. He never thought I would do it and I think I really surprised him when I agreed. I think what made me decide to do it is that you only live once and I thought "this would really be an experience" And I was right because the experience has always been and still is....amazing! I started in December of 2004 and even after all these years, it's still fun and exciting. I truly can't imagine NOT having my site here on SC.

Have I encountered anything that I didn't expect? Yes. I think most people have a predetermined opinion of people who not only DO porn but of those who VIEW porn. And what I discovered is that the people here at SC that I've met, who do porn, whether is the owners, the staff, the photographers or the models, are the nicest, and most normal people you would ever meet! They are just like everyone else! They have families, jobs, opinions, fears, they laugh and worry and can be shy......but they are brave enough to put themselves out there on the web not only for THEIR enjoyment, but for others too. They are non judgemental and open minded. And the ones who VIEW porn, that I've gotten to know on a more personal level, are just regular guys who aren't afraid to compliment a woman they find attractive. They are polite and gentlemanly and are sometimes UNNECESSARILY nervous about talking with a model.

My Best memories? I have the time of my life when I get together with other charms. I wish I could do it more often. It's so much fun! I mean I put a nipple ring on my best friend! lol And I let another friend tie me to a bench and faux spank me while lots of others watched. Such Good times In all honesty, the memories and experiences that I have from SC can't be duplicated in any other situation. They are unique but very special simply due to the nature of them. I mean can YOU imagine being able to be so free and silly while NAKED? And not feel funny about it afterwards? It's truly a special part of my life. And the people that I've met because of my site will always be special to me.

My worst memories? I had a stalker 10 or 12 years ago who found me on SC. It was scary. He only stalked me online, not physically but he let me know that he could find me. Whether it was true or not, I don't know. But it's made me be very careful.

How has SC changed me? One word, CONFIDENCE. I have much more of it because of SC and my site. And that's definitely a good thing

[martinae]

My worst memories? I had a stalker 10 or 12 years ago who found me on SC. It was scary. He only stalked me online, not physically but he let me know that he could find me. Whether it was true or not, I don't know. But it's made me be very careful.

Ok, I feel the need to respond to this one... Yes, there is an incredible amount of information you can find on anyone on line if you know where to look... and almost all of it is free and completely legal... there are some comical videos out there... moral of the story, please have respect for people and give them their space... if someone says they want to keep their distance, then there is no reason to violate that what soever!

[Staples]

What a great question. Let me see if I can answer some of these!

- what made you decide that you wanted to become a SC model?

When I met my now husband, he had been a huge fan of the site for nearly a decade. He's a fetish photographer and had always wanted to take pictures of SC girls. So... I became one! I had dabbled in web camming and have always been into Kink and BDSM, so I figured it might be a fun way to capture some of our sexy adventures and it also appealed to my exhibitionist streak.

- has the experience been what you hoped/anticipated it would be?

Overall, it has been everything I've wanted it to be! I have a great time with my hubby and I've made some great friends.

- has there been anything you have encountered whilst being a model that you did not expect?

I honestly never expected to make friends with any of my members or other models but it has been a real treat to do so.

- what have been your best memories? and what have been your worst?

Best memories would definitely include the bashes and getting to meet lovely ladies like Serena, Alex, Buddah, Italian Lace, Butter Cream, Lianne Raines and soooo many more that I'm sure I'm forgetting. Such fun charms and I am so blessed to have gotten to meet and even shoot with some of these folks.

Worst memories are just rude fans! One comes to mind, I shot with a guest model who was not a charm on the site. I got multiple e-mails from guys asking me where they could find more of her which was cool but many of them would say things like they preferred her body type over mine or that they wished my boobs were as big as hers. It's totally cool to have a favorite body type or boob size, but you shouldn't make a charm feel bad because they don't meet those types that you enjoy. I just wish that fans would realize that models have feelings and emotions. Some of the things that "fans" have written to me are just downright hurtful but they always say it in a way that they think is complimentary.

- in what ways, if any, has the experience changed you?

This experience has given me confidence and courage that I definitely didn't have six+ years ago when I started this journey!

[wendymeadowssc2]

Worst memories are just rude fans! One comes to mind, I shot with a guest model who was not a charm on the site. I got multiple e-mails from guys asking me where they could find more of her which was cool but many of them would say things like they preferred her body type over mine or that they wished my boobs were as big as hers. It's totally cool to have a favorite body type or boob size, but you shouldn't make a charm feel bad because they don't meet those types that you enjoy. I just wish that fans would realize that models have feelings and emotions. Some of the things that "fans" have written to me are just downright hurtful but they always say it in a way that they think is complimentary.

This.... I recently posted some photos that I took with a female friend who is supposed to be joining Southern Charms. Well, I posted the photos since I had her guest release on file and she had a job transfer that took her across country and it put her sending her paperwork in being fairly non existent. Like she keeps saying she is going to but she has been swamped with the new job. I have gotten so many emails saying they want to see her, where can they find her, they like her better than me, etc. I have had a couple of emails straight up telling me that I am ugly compared to her and they don't want to have to join my site to see more of her. It really hurts. Words hurt, guys. I know you might be excited about a girl, but that doesn't mean that you can treat others like a piece of shit and make them feel bad about themselves.

[CrumblingPerv]

Thank you ladies for taking the time to reply and share your experiences. It has been very enjoyable reading your responses.

As for the bad experiences you have had with the thoughtless feedback well ... I sometimes wonder how, for some people, it is possible for that kind of garbage to get from the desiccated walnut rattling between their ears to the sphincter on the front of their head without once thinking "perhaps this is a really shitty thing to say".

[Anna Moore]

Crumbling Perv

This is my second throw at being a Charm, I ceased with my Alluring Alena account simply because I had an impending divorce.
I missed the attention that I received and once my divorce was finalized I restarted as Anna Moore.
Thanks to the generosity of one particular former member I have a closet full of shoes, Boots, Latex wear, hosiery and he also helped to pay for my Breast augmentation.
I have so much fun being a Charm and through this site and Twitter I have shot for Score, Allover30, Mompov and we now produce ( shoot images and videos ) for a couple of websites in Europe. To say that SC has opened many doors is an understatement.

Love you guys and looking forward to what 2019 has in store for me.

Muah

The Anna Moore

[Italian Lace SC4]

- what made you decide that you wanted to become a SC model?

I posted some pics, just for fun on a site called "I, Erotic Voluptuous Woman," a site dedicated to appreciating the voluptuous female form (now defunct), and to my surprise, I started receiving fan mail! People were asking if I had more photos they could buy. Around that time I met a girl who was a Charm and the rest was history!

- has the experience been what you hoped/anticipated it would be?

This experience has turned into so much more than I ever imagined. It started as a naughty little hobby and became my passion project. I invest SO MUCH time, energy, money and love into my site now... it's my obsession. I couldn't do it without my wonderful photographer, but I am proud to be able to say that every outfit, set, graphic, and bit of text you see on my site is all my creative brainchild. I never thought I would love my site so much, or that I could or would build up such a full, colorful and beautiful collection of erotic photos! I never imagined that I would be so proud of this. For me, it isn't just erotic play, it is a creative outlet, which in itself turns me on.

- has there been anything you have encountered whilst being a model that you did not expect?

I didn't expect the insight I have gained into the human psyche in the areas of sexual deviance and fetish. Modeling started that, camming and phonesex have really grown and honed it. I've learned to see things in people that I can't unsee... Usually, it is something someone says or does in my vanilla life that makes me go "huh... that's interesting" and start to wonder, and often my suspicions are confirmed if I am given the opportunity to dig deeper. I'm an observer of people. They fascinate me, and so many people are driven by their sexual urges to some degree. When you can understand a person's sexual tastes it really goes a long way to understanding the person as a whole. In a nutshell, I've learned to spot a freaky person from a mile away... I call it my spidey sense

- what have been your best memories? and what have been your worst?

My best memories are always when I get together with other Charms. When you get together with friendly faces once a year or so, it's like seeing family. You laugh and catch up, you tell stories, you mess with each other. I've formed bonds with some of the most amazing people who have broadened my horizons in ways I never imagined. Also, I've had the opportunities to go to places to shoot that I never would have gone to in my own vanilla life. Those "working vacations" have been some of the best times of my life.

Sadly, my worst memories have also been with Charms who were less than savory, but those experiences have been few and I don't like to dwell on them. When you meet a lot of people, sometimes those people just aren't going to be "your" people. They are still a part of my experience and have helped me along the way to becoming who I am, even if they only served as an example of how I DON'T want to be.

- in what ways, if any, has the experience changed you?

Gosh, how *hasn't* it changed me!?! LOL. I NEVER saw my life going in this direction. I have a college degree and was prepping for law school. The adventure that this has been over the last 12 years is far more exciting than that future looked for me. Also, I had no idea I was so creative-minded, or that I would feel so fulfilled working in an art/entertainment field. Now that I have opened my mind to being a creator I am constantly coming up with new ideas and creations. The sky is the limit! I think I am happier doing this than I would be in a traditional lifestyle. So in essence, being an SC model changed everything about who I thought I was and who I would become.

And as a little added bonus, here's a pic from that site I mentioned, my very first appearance on the internet (circa 2005):

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I've come a long way from a 4 megapixel point-and-shoot, and let's all thank our lucky stars that I bought a lighting kit LOL

[sweetsexymama]

Another charm brought me in. I have to say best experience good and bad. I've learned a lot and still taking more in.

Feeling sexy again. Exploring my inner goddess.

[loke693]

Worst memories are just rude fans! One comes to mind, I shot with a guest model who was not a charm on the site. I got multiple e-mails from guys asking me where they could find more of her which was cool but many of them would say things like they preferred her body type over mine or that they wished my boobs were as big as hers. It's totally cool to have a favorite body type or boob size, but you shouldn't make a charm feel bad because they don't meet those types that you enjoy. I just wish that fans would realize that models have feelings and emotions. Some of the things that "fans" have written to me are just downright hurtful but they always say it in a way that they think is complimentary.

This.... I recently posted some photos that I took with a female friend who is supposed to be joining Southern Charms. Well, I posted the photos since I had her guest release on file and she had a job transfer that took her across country and it put her sending her paperwork in being fairly non existent. Like she keeps saying she is going to but she has been swamped with the new job. I have gotten so many emails saying they want to see her, where can they find her, they like her better than me, etc. I have had a couple of emails straight up telling me that I am ugly compared to her and they don't want to have to join my site to see more of her. It really hurts. Words hurt, guys. I know you might be excited about a girl, but that doesn't mean that you can treat others like a piece of shit and make them feel bad about themselves.

Wendy, please know that when guys start to think (and speak) with the wrong head, they do stupid stuff such as you described. My recommendation is that when you get those emails, ignore their ignorance. You will never please 100% of the people and thus you have to ignore that 1% that most, and definitely I would say are ignorant. You just know that you are beautiful and that you are the one that is bringing her to SC and that for that this person should be grateful to you!!!

Please don’t take that one email as anything but one rare individual. Look at the other 100000000000 emails that you get that talk about how beautiful, sexy, gorgeous, etc. that you truly are!!!


Loke