Inside the mind of a long time member

[snowfan]

I’ve been coming to this site for close to 20 years now and still enjoy it as much as ever. I thought it might be interesting to give everyone some insights into my reasons for hanging around here so long.

I’m 49 and have always been a pretty quiet shy guy. Needless to say masturbation always played a huge role in my life. It was always what I did when stressed, lonely or just wanted to feel good.

I got tired of seeing the same type of girls online. The blonde in her early 20s, tanned with fake boobs and airbrushed beyond belief. I wanted to see real women and especially the more mature 40 plus ladies.

I found this site and was hooked immediately. I had a place to come every day and see beautiful natural women.

Even today I usually find myself having a beer late at night and unzipping while I browse my favorites here. Saturdays morning are another great time. I can fix a pot of coffee and really take some time to myself and enjoy myself.

I’ll usually mix in some of my favorites celebrities with my favorite charms and have a great time.

[Christo]

I've been an SC fan for about the same length of time. Growing up I liked girls my own age (goodness, did I ever) but I had a SERIOUS thing for older women. I'd see all the sexy MILFs at our local pool lounging around in bikinis and they made a serious, long-lasting impression on me. When I indulged in masturbation (and, goodness, did I ever indulge) I almost always fantasized about the hot moms in the neighborhood. I also had a major smoking fetish, thanks again to the many, many gorgeous older women I saw lighting up and enjoying cigarettes at that same pool. This was back in the day when smoking was allowed, like, just about everywhere.

I was a bit shy around the girls my own age, so of course I wasn't going to go up to my friend's SUPER HOT mother and ask if I could spread suntan oil all over her magnificent body. Just not the sort of thing that teenage boys can get away with. I'm older now than the sexy moms I lusted over, and my wife is right about that age, and I find that I'm still powerfully attracted to hot older women. Good thing I'm married to one!

So for the much-younger me, Southern Charms was just about the perfect website. There were scores, nay, HUNDREDS of MILF Next Door types who were hot and sexy and pretty, but not your typical Barbie-doll pornstar types. Many of these sexy ladies also smoked in their photo sets--as I've said before, I discovered SC because someone posted a few photos on a smoking fetish site around 1999 and I was like, "Oh my, I must type this URL into Netscape this very second!"

I've been a fan ever since. And a member of...I don't know how many Charms. LOTS. It's funny, over the years I've had a little side business that provides a tiny bit of income doing stuff I enjoy. And when I earn a little money I put most of it aside, but I always use a bit of it for silly fun stuff just for me. And joining SC sites has become part of that silly fun. And over two decades I've become something of Charm collector, I have an URGE to expand my bulging folder of SC pics and ensure I've joined every model I admire. Always good to support small businesses, especially when the proprietors are SMOKING HOT and allow us to admire their beauty and fantabulous bodies.

I have multiple external hard drives with my collection backed up, even have a Box account with my all-time favorites stashed in the cloud in case an asteroid smashes my house. On the one hand I know this is KRAYZEE, but on the other hand there are people who spend tens of millions of dollars collecting Warhols or Picassos. So who's the REAL crazy person, I ask?? Still me? OK, I can accept that.

[CassandraUK]

Its great to hear from you guys who are long term SC fans and the reasons behind it.

I love being a charm because i enjoy bringing happiness into peoples lives and yes i suppose i am an exhibitionist too.

When i was younger I was that slim girl who strutted around the pool. Today i am a more curvy lady but very proud of my shape and looks.

Its great to be that MILF next door with her naughty secret. No one would ever guess unless they discovered your secret.

Cassandra UK

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[PetraDaniels]

this is so great to hear!
WONDERFUL thank you for taking the time to engage us with your posts, members!

[loke693]

It’s scary how the words of christo and Snowfan are so similar to the words I would say. Something about SC resonates with me. I’ve been on here for nearly 20 years, seen many a Charm come and go, but SC has always been good to me. They have something for everyone. They have a variety of charms that you can and will find many that tickle your fancy!!! They give Charms an opportunity to take chances, cater to their likes, their desires, their fantasies, their passions and be entrepreneurs!!! They allow the Charms to explore their wild sides, cater to their artist sides, whatever it is the Charm wants to do. They allow Young Charms to Seasoned Charms, they allow the Charms to do just that, Charm!!!

Then they allow the fans to find what they enjoy and indulge!!! They allow fans to pick who they like, support who they like, encourage who they like, chat with which Charm they like. It is an outlet that allows fans to see what they like, what they want to see, build friendships whatever. Southern Charms was introduced to me by a now ex Charm. She tried for months maybe years to get me to check it out, but I was slow. Once I listened to her, checked out SC, I’ve been hooked ever since. I’ve had the pleasure of chatting with some amazing Charms from around the world. I have forged some amazing friendships as a result of SC that I wouldn’t have had if it were not for SC.

As you have probably seen from me, I try to be complimentary to each and every Charm. They don’t have to do what they are doing and thus I appreciate them for doing it. I will never have anything negative to say about a Charm, either here or anywhere because you don’t have to share, and anything I can do to help support and promote your website/ business, I’m going to do so. I’m going to encourage you and push you to the greatness that you have already shown by being on here!!!

Thank you Charms for doing what you do and sharing it with us. I appreciate it and hope you feel the appreciation, with my comments here and on my other posts. Thank you for this post Snowfan as it allowed me to reflect on my years on SC and how much I appreciate all that have come, gone and is still yet to come ( or cum, LOL).


Loke

[snowfan]

I've been looking over many of my favorites Charms this morning and just love the idea of seeing real everyday natural women. Ladies who you may see at the grocery store, think shes attractive but then go on about your day. Its so much fun to be able to sit here and really appreciate their beauty.

There is just so much sexiness and beauty in ladies that goes unnoticed but Charms gives us all a chance to share and admire it.

I also love being open about admiring women here. Admitting that I enjoy masturbating to them. Hopefully they all understand thats just a form of admiration and respect. Just looking at their photos, seeing thier fully exposed bodies, seeing how their personality shines thru. Just so much fun.

[naughtykittySC1]

I’ve been coming to this site for close to 20 years now and still enjoy it as much as ever. I thought it might be interesting to give everyone some insights into my reasons for hanging around here so long.

I’m 49 and have always been a pretty quiet shy guy. Needless to say masturbation always played a huge role in my life. It was always what I did when stressed, lonely or just wanted to feel good.

I got tired of seeing the same type of girls online. The blonde in her early 20s, tanned with fake boobs and airbrushed beyond belief. I wanted to see real women and especially the more mature 40 plus ladies.

I found this site and was hooked immediately. I had a place to come every day and see beautiful natural women.

Even today I usually find myself having a beer late at night and unzipping while I browse my favorites here. Saturdays morning are another great time. I can fix a pot of coffee and really take some time to myself and enjoy myself.

I’ll usually mix in some of my favorites celebrities with my favorite charms and have a great time.

Your message has meant a lot to me.
Many times you want to continue uploading photos, when on social networks you see all beautiful "perfect" women and you think that you will never be like that, because your tits, your ass or your curves are not those of a model.
It's great to hear that the natural is valued and that we all have our niche among boys' tastes.
Really thank you very much for your words!

[PetraDaniels]

yes indeed
it was so heart warming to hear from you two
who actually are members and loving it.. thank you again for that

[Daphne]

I've been an SC fan for about the same length of time. Growing up I liked girls my own age (goodness, did I ever) but I had a SERIOUS thing for older women. I'd see all the sexy MILFs at our local pool lounging around in bikinis and they made a serious, long-lasting impression on me. When I indulged in masturbation (and, goodness, did I ever indulge) I almost always fantasized about the hot moms in the neighborhood. I also had a major smoking fetish, thanks again to the many, many gorgeous older women I saw lighting up and enjoying cigarettes at that same pool. This was back in the day when smoking was allowed, like, just about everywhere.

I was a bit shy around the girls my own age, so of course I wasn't going to go up to my friend's SUPER HOT mother and ask if I could spread suntan oil all over her magnificent body. Just not the sort of thing that teenage boys can get away with. I'm older now than the sexy moms I lusted over, and my wife is right about that age, and I find that I'm still powerfully attracted to hot older women. Good thing I'm married to one!

So for the much-younger me, Southern Charms was just about the perfect website. There were scores, nay, HUNDREDS of MILF Next Door types who were hot and sexy and pretty, but not your typical Barbie-doll pornstar types. Many of these sexy ladies also smoked in their photo sets--as I've said before, I discovered SC because someone posted a few photos on a smoking fetish site around 1999 and I was like, "Oh my, I must type this URL into Netscape this very second!"

I've been a fan ever since. And a member of...I don't know how many Charms. LOTS. It's funny, over the years I've had a little side business that provides a tiny bit of income doing stuff I enjoy. And when I earn a little money I put most of it aside, but I always use a bit of it for silly fun stuff just for me. And joining SC sites has become part of that silly fun. And over two decades I've become something of Charm collector, I have an URGE to expand my bulging folder of SC pics and ensure I've joined every model I admire. Always good to support small businesses, especially when the proprietors are SMOKING HOT and allow us to admire their beauty and fantabulous bodies.

I have multiple external hard drives with my collection backed up, even have a Box account with my all-time favorites stashed in the cloud in case an asteroid smashes my house. On the one hand I know this is KRAYZEE, but on the other hand there are people who spend tens of millions of dollars collecting Warhols or Picassos. So who's the REAL crazy person, I ask?? Still me? OK, I can accept that.

My husband will be happy to know he is not the only collector in the world of charms photos. The reason I started on SC was because my husband was a fan. His story seems very similar to what is being said here on this thread. It took him almost about 10 years to convince me that I should just try SC that he was sure people would like me if I had a site. I honestly didn't believe him, because I remember looking at the ladies on SC in the early 2000's and I had my favorites of women I thought were beautiful on SC. Violet was one of my early favorites, her eyes were always so mesmerizing to me. Sorry getting off topic. Anyways, my point was since the early 2000's and even before my husband has collected photos from charms, he has joined sites, he too has external hard drives for his collection. I appreciate the fact that he finds beauty in so many different women and shows that appreciation by paying for the membership to their site when he has a little extra fun money.
Thank you for sharing!!
XoXo, Daphne

[snowfan]

I’m glad you enjoyed my post. It’s so great to have a place you can come to and be totally open and honest about what you enjoy. I really enjoy my time visiting sites of various ladies and seeing everyone. I know it’s fun for everyone but Charms also need to be rewarded with a membership if you enjoy them. Many times I see
Enough ton the free site to satisfy myself but will join anyway to support the ladies here.

[Missy]

Thank you so much for sharing. I love what I do. Charms has given me an awesome safe platform for me to play in. I also started on charms after my husband told me about it. He had been enjoying it for a few years. I never knew there was a place that a normal non porn star could work in. Now it has been like over 10 years on charms and have no wishes of stopping. I'm a true life MILF shooting sets while the house is empty during the day.

[snowfan]

I have a lot of fun online being able to openly talk about masturbation. Its something not many people will discuss openly in real life but its always been such a major part of my life. I try to be respectful but its fun letting ladies on here know how much pleasure their photos and videos bring me. I'm hoping they dont mind me being so open about what I do at home alone. Its even fun discussing jacking off with other online guy buds. Not often you can discuss technique and frequency with your real life buds but online its all possible.

[cougarjulesSC4]

This is a favorite post of mine and one I may often return to to see who else chimes in and reveals their most delicious tidbits. This is the biggest reason I joined SC as a Charm, I had many facets of myself that needed to be shared and reveled in. I am truly an exhibitionist and am most happy when I am being watched, in whatever form. It just makes me want to do it more! And to know that my fans masturbate because of me? That's true appreciation right there. I'm not saying that I am an attention whore, because I'm really not. To be quite honest I would do every bit of what I do whether someone watches me or not. I was taking my own erotic photos back in Oklahoma and doing amateur porn videos just for the fun of it. I had over 700 in a Dropbox before I ever moved to Florida, they just don't meet all the requirements for submission here and that's ok too. I did them because I wanted to do them and I'll likely never stop. As for masturbation, that's the most natural part of me and I myself like to watch porn so I definitely get it. Thank you fans, for your honesty and adoration of all of us and thank you Charms for joining me in this joyful expression of our secret and not-so-secret side of ourselves!