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Hi Peeps,

I was just wondering if anyone had an opinion about full M/F hardcore shoots as I am thinking about doing some myself.

For the Charms , is this something any of you do or have done , what has been the reaction?

For the Fans , is this something you would like to see more of , rather than just simple solo shoots ?

Let me know what you think x

Sarah x

I love them! My 7th update I had my first threesome with two men. I think having m/f gives variety! I enjoy it and I think my fans do too! I mix it up and mostly do solo but once in a while I think they like seeing me with a guy!

I've joined a number of charms sites over the years and have to say that I am more apt to join a site if I can be guaranteed that there are a good number of hardcore sets. In fact, that is my biggest complaint with Southern Charms. I feel as if they don't accurately label whether a Charm has hardcore sets. At times I feel as if I've gotten burned when I join a site that is labeled as being hardcore in the advanced search, has hundreds of updates but just one or two hardcore updates and an ocean of solo shoots. I feel ripped off. Along with this, I feel it is almost deceptive when you see multiple updates with guest models, other charms or whatnot, but with no hardcore content. I wish that somehow the site as a whole would better label whether a model has hardcore updates or not. There are some models that I think are very attractive but I would never join because they don't have hardcore updates. (I can think of a few of these off the top of my head, it is kind of sad since there are some real hotties on this site that just stick to solo/softcore.) So yes, the more hardcore shoots the better. The ideal site to me would be primarily hardcore with an occasional softcore shoot.

I will add to this that I know that there are models that explicitly say they only do solo shoots, and I very much appreciate that they say this, it stops me from wasting my money.

dictums wrote:I've joined a number of charms sites over the years and have to say that I am more apt to join a site if I can be guaranteed that there are a good number of hardcore sets. In fact, that is my biggest complaint with Southern Charms. I feel as if they don't accurately label whether a Charm has hardcore sets. At times I feel as if I've gotten burned when I join a site that is labeled as being hardcore in the advanced search, has hundreds of updates but just one or two hardcore updates and an ocean of solo shoots. I feel ripped off. Along with this, I feel it is almost deceptive when you see multiple updates with guest models, other charms or whatnot, but with no hardcore content. I wish that somehow the site as a whole would better label whether a model has hardcore updates or not. There are some models that I think are very attractive but I would never join because they don't have hardcore updates. (I can think of a few of these off the top of my head, it is kind of sad since there are some real hotties on this site that just stick to solo/softcore.) So yes, the more hardcore shoots the better. The ideal site to me would be primarily hardcore with an occasional softcore shoot.

I will add to this that I know that there are models that explicitly say they only do solo shoots, and I very much appreciate that they say this, it stops me from wasting my money.

You can always email the charm and ask what's on her site

I think most of us have much more solo content than hardcore content. Some of us live in areas where getting together with others takes a lot of time and effort so it can be difficult. Many people too are just not willing to get tested and put down the ID required by law to go on a site. Add in making sure there is a photographer available and it gets even harder.
I know for me I have a lot more hardcore videos than I have hardcore updates on my site. I have some members though that prefer my solo content over anything else.
i do know 2 of the Gents (Beau Jingles and Rocweiler Jaksun) only do hardcore m/f updates now.

Xandusk wrote:I think most of us have much more solo content than hardcore content. Some of us live in areas where getting together with others takes a lot of time and effort so it can be difficult. Many people too are just not willing to get tested and put down the ID required by law to go on a site. Add in making sure there is a photographer available and it gets even harder.

I have to say I can't fault any Charms for not doing hardcore sets, I'm sure there is alot that goes on behind the scenes to get them out there than we fans realize. Plus I imagine that many just don't want to go there, that's the nice thing about SC, it isn't a cookie cutter site, everyone is unique. (I also have to say Xandusk, your video page is right up my alley and I've put a couple of your vids on my "to do" list. )

dictums wrote:

Xandusk wrote:I think most of us have much more solo content than hardcore content. Some of us live in areas where getting together with others takes a lot of time and effort so it can be difficult. Many people too are just not willing to get tested and put down the ID required by law to go on a site. Add in making sure there is a photographer available and it gets even harder.

I have to say I can't fault any Charms for not doing hardcore sets, I'm sure there is alot that goes on behind the scenes to get them out there than we fans realize. Plus I imagine that many just don't want to go there, that's the nice thing about SC, it isn't a cookie cutter site, everyone is unique. (I also have to say Xandusk, your video page is right up my alley and I've put a couple of your vids on my "to do" list. )

Aww thank you honey. I hope you do enjoy them. Some have photosets to go with them, but a good amount don't

Don't know if face-sex is considered hardcore or even just the lighter less invasive facescissors and facesitting that I've taken but that's my cup of tea and I'm all in (so to speak). Even if I'm just the receiver I love it and I either abstain from concluding or am otherwise released in various manners

If they don't have hardcore pictures that is fine. I've joined a number of sites where there were no hardcore pictures and liked those site just as well as the ones that have hardcore pictures.

My m/f and masturbating sets seem to draw a lot of positive attention. I wish I could do more! They are my favorite, really. Since being with someone else isn't always an option I do try to play with toys are touch myself with my fingers in a lot of photo sets (almost all, lately).

Love H/C vids, but not a fan of H/C pics at all, I just want to see the Charm. Different strokes for different folks lol.

I can't speak for the other charms who don't have "hardcore", only for myself.

Personally, I will never have hardcore which includes intercourse or blowjobs on my site. Why? Because I've been married for over 30 years, was a virgin when I married and have been faithful to my husband all this time. I have no interest in being with another man and my husband has no interest in appearing in that capacity on my site.

With that said, I do feel that I make it very clear in all of my text, the details of every photo update or video. Stating "erotic foreplay" etc in the updates my husband appears in, and in the updates I've shot with Oh Alex's photographer. And when Oh Alex and I do updates together, we both make it clear that there is no SEXUAL g/g content. Just two naked women

SC would really be boring if all of the Charms only did the exact same type of photo shoot with absolutely no variety, don't you think ? A reason that many ladies decided to be on SC is because they are allowed to do all types of photo shoots, be it softcore, hadcore or whatever, as long as the photos fall within the set guidelines which are fairly generous.

I've been working on setting up a hardcore shoot and let me tell you it's not as easy as it sounds. Trying to find some one willing to do a shoot and jump through the paper work hoops is tough. I have a friend who's willing so hopefully if we get our schedules to match up I'll have my first m/f set this month. Having a husband for a photographer helps out a lot.

My biggest concern is trying make it look natural, and not staged.

I'd be interested in knowing what kind of shoot fans would be more interested in seeing, A complete shoot involving the full on act, or set broken down in to the pieces, such set just dealing with a blow job for instance.

Hi guys thanks for all the feedback , one of thethings that we are having an issue with right now is , we really need three people as were struggling to find a way fior my BF to shoot and star at the same time

Another thing this is more for the fans, but does it matter that the guy in such shoots is not exactly Adonis ?

I ask because my BF is what I would call an average guy (you know generally hairy ,could do with losing a few pounds etc ) just your average everyday guy I suppose

(but I love him to bits )

Any thoughts ?

Secretsarah SC4 wrote:Hi guys thanks for all the feedback , one of thethings that we are having an issue with right now is , we really need three people as were struggling to find a way fior my BF to shoot and star at the same time

Another thing this is more for the fans, but does it matter that the guy in such shoots is not exactly Adonis ?

I ask because my BF is what I would call an average guy (you know generally hairy ,could do with losing a few pounds etc ) just your average everyday guy I suppose

(but I love him to bits )

Any thoughts ?

Personally, I'm not a fan of hardcore. Well, not b/g stuff anyway. But if I am watching it, my eyes are more focussed on the female, so I don't really care if the guy is built like the Hulk or skinnier than Pippa Middleton.
Just my opinion.

AlyssaVixen SC2 wrote:I've been working on setting up a hardcore shoot and let me tell you it's not as easy as it sounds. Trying to find some one willing to do a shoot and jump through the paper work hoops is tough. I have a friend who's willing so hopefully if we get our schedules to match up I'll have my first m/f set this month. Having a husband for a photographer helps out a lot.

My biggest concern is trying make it look natural, and not staged.

I'd be interested in knowing what kind of shoot fans would be more interested in seeing, A complete shoot involving the full on act, or set broken down in to the pieces, such set just dealing with a blow job for instance.

The one shot that IMO is essential to any H/C photo shoot is the BJ, all mouth and NO HANDS lol, with the Charm looking directly into the camera at me watching! Again, keep those hands out of the way (true for vids too lol).

Speaking of vids, I would LOVE to see you make some vids & put them up for sale, you are such a hottie!

Some videos are on my to do list as well. Just haven't been able to get comfortable in front of a video camera yet. LOL.

I personally prefer hardcore content. I enjoy looking at the solo stuff on occasion, but it doesn't get my blood flowing like a good hardcore b/g or group shoot...even simple g/g.

When I first started my Gent site, I was doing solo content. You can see that by looking at the first 20 sets or so, but quickly realized that hardcore, especially for us Gents, sell much better and gets more response from the fans. This is why I have started focusing on hardcore. I have over 20 different Charms on my site, and hope to add some more new ones soon .

Beau Jingles wrote:I personally prefer hardcore content. I enjoy looking at the solo stuff on occasion, but it doesn't get my blood flowing like a good hardcore b/g or group shoot...even simple g/g.

When I first started my Gent site, I was doing solo content. You can see that by looking at the first 20 sets or so, but quickly realized that hardcore, especially for us Gents, sell much better and gets more response from the fans. This is why I have started focusing on hardcore. I have over 20 different Charms on my site, and hope to add some more new ones soon .

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