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I know alot of you ladies and gents can so relate to this topic so I am going to put it out there.
I have fought my weight for 20 plus years, and have been up and down from a size 6 to a size 16. I was in such a rut for years and it sucked!
I always thought I had to fit into a perfect model mold~~ but I cant, I am not perfect. I have flaws, I am fluffy and I am Happy!
After much soul searching and a much need positive makeover, I am finally happy at my comfy size 14/16!
I am just going to love life and eat the damm cake! life is way too short to be fighting a never ending battle ~ plus i love cake!

I am so thrilled that my members, fans and friends are loving the new Alaya!
It has taken her many years to come out but she is fierce, sassy and so happy!

thank you to my members, fans and friends for loving me! Lets rock 2020 as I am ready to bring it!
alaya sc3~~~Katie

You are so wonderful i love the new Alaya she is one sexy minx xxxxxxxx

Alya, good for you! I feel the same way. No more dieting for me. I say eat the cake too. SC has been wonderful for my self esteem. I am beautiful as ANY size!

Charms had made me feel so comfortable in my own skin. It feels so good getting email and tweets says how sexy we all look.

yes weight arghh!
i was always skinny... then menopause! bam
fleshy and tired..
then every now and then i go off sugar and carbs. 2016-18
those were the days
then i started up again

Alaya i am sure that u find clothes feel better when smaller
however. guys don't care
i had one member say to me "i came here for the rolls"
hahahmade me laugh
i also am happy in my skin
i love ice cream!!!
but never put weight on cuz members want you to as one gal asked about

thanks for being you!

alaya sc3 wrote:I know alot of you ladies and gents can so relate to this topic so I am going to put it out there.
I have fought my weight for 20 plus years, and have been up and down from a size 6 to a size 16. I was in such a rut for years and it sucked!
I always thought I had to fit into a perfect model mold~~ but I cant, I am not perfect. I have flaws, I am fluffy and I am Happy!
After much soul searching and a much need positive makeover, I am finally happy at my comfy size 14/16!
I am just going to love life and eat the damm cake! life is way too short to be fighting a never ending battle ~ plus i love cake!

I am so thrilled that my members, fans and friends are loving the new Alaya!
It has taken her many years to come out but she is fierce, sassy and so happy!

thank you to my members, fans and friends for loving me! Lets rock 2020 as I am ready to bring it!
alaya sc3~~~Katie

U rock girl.
There is nothing sexier. Confidence runs the world. Let it run u. Your confidence of who you are as a person will glow. I am a 12/14 and love every curve I have. I am almost 50. So no matter what age. Love the skin u r in.
Great job hun. Thumbs up for u.
SexyRicki
sexyrickiSC1

Love yourself 1st

The main reason I have been visiting Charms for over a decade is because I love to see real women. I’m not interested in the airbrushed models that seem to be everywhere and all look the same. I like real and I like variety. This place is perfect for that and the confidence I see in the ladies posting here is so sexy. It’s a huge turn on knowing you all feel confident enough to fully expose yourselves for us.

Real women have rolls, curves, parts sag. That’s all natural and
Normal and I feel we are wired to love this. It’s so sad that we don’t see mire of this.

So for all the Charms out there, get an extra piece of cake and enjoy a bowl of your favorite ice cream. Then put in a bikini and grab the camera.

Alaya, you are fabulous at any weight. but right now you are perfect.

thank you all so very much for the replies and the lovely words.

I am happy in my skin but due to some health scares had to start taking the weight off.
believe it or not i was 230 pounds and my knees and heart just were not having it anymore!

So after a horrible scare in December and Jan. It was time to lost the weight.
I am feeling great, dr happy and have another 25 to go!

so cheer me on friends. I am not losing it to be skinny or to the thin, it is strickly to LIVE!

much love
alaya sc3

I was absent for 3 years and just recently rejoined. And I'm 120 pounds less thn I was! I was so nervous about rejoining, as I am now one big wrinkled mess, according to what I see! But I convinced myself long ago, and it was not easy, that what I think does not matter! I'm not the one writing the check! LOL ANd getting the compliments sure helps boot the moral, doesn't it?

It's great feeling love for yourself. I know I've fought the weight battle its definitely tough. Enjoying how i look and feel is so much better now that I'm older.

Love this! I have also struggled with weight a lot over the years. Kids, stress, everything else but have learned to 'embrace' who I am and it has made me love even more showing off my body and exploring more!

I have been keeping up with my yoga for about 3 months now. Loving how it makes me feel. I feel better in my skin but still would like to lose more of me. I need to work on cutting out sugar and walking more.

You look great Alaya and like many others we always felt we "have to fit in"... After having cancer and having to have a full hysterectomy and later my gall bladder removed my weight has increased and with no amount of diet or excerise i cannot lose it,
so now like you I am happy with with what I have and grateful and a bonus I get new clothes...lol..so no more trying to hid my "rolls" in my photo shoots.....xx

i just saw your photos today ALAYA
wow you are looking fantastic!!
good on you...

then

i saw RANDY RAZ
wow you are quite the survivor
kudos!!

when i had shingles i lost o ton of weight, i loved it
but i put it back on
i do hide my tummy
always have even when i was in my 30's
i guess i really should chill

I Love your Body sweety Alaya
Love
Catia