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ISU wrote:I was just wondering what makes a good fan and a great fan. I have been watching the discussions on this board for some time now and was wondering what would be the difference between a good fan or member and a great one. I see that gman blymike and markjeans must be great fans. they seem to be the only ones that I see on here constantly. there is some others but not that many. what does a great fan do differently from a good fan. do they send gifts. email more often. was just wondering. I have seen from some of the discussion what a bad fan is all about but was wondering what the difference between a great one and a good one was

Hi

I think everyone is going to have a different opinion/definition of good fan/great fan.

But here's mine:

To me, there's no difference between a good fan/great fan. Just simply discovering that someone is a "fan" of my SC site is a tremendous compliment to me. Whether they email me once or a hundred times, makes no difference. I'm flattered beyond belief every time I check my email! Gifts are nice, I won't lie about that But it's not something I expect from any fan.

A fan can turn into a "friend", so that's a difference. I'm not talking about "meeting face to face and knowing all there is to know" type of friend, but a friend that I can talk about regular things in my life and not just 'sultry serena' things. And it's not if they've sent me gifts, or emailed me tons, etc, it's just simply if we click....There's some fans that only want to email me when they are looking at my pics and "enjoying themselves".....and that's ok! I don't mind, and it's nice to hear how horny I'm making them But to me, they are still great fans! Even if they've only emailed me once. And even if it's a quick one line message.

I love being "Sultry Serena". If I didn't I wouldn't have stuck around for nearly 9 years now! But even though it's hard to believe.......I don't always walk around in 6" pumps, wearing skin tight mini dresses. There are times that I'm just a normal, girl next door housewife, with a normal life.....and sometimes it's nice to just be "me" and the "friend" aspect comes into play

I don't now what anyone would call me, Fan, Great fan or Friend, all I know is that I have enjoyed Sultry Serena for all of her time on SC and I have enjoyed every minute of it and it does not matter if I am enjoying her incredible sexy photos, her sexy videos or just writing her messages, I consider everything to be fantastic and she is a GODDESS to me!

Yeah, it'll definitely be different for each person. There are some members of my site who I have become close with (a couple of them). The fans that email me with cock pics are not my favourite. lol.

ISU wrote:I was just wondering what makes a good fan and a great fan. I have been watching the discussions on this board for some time now and was wondering what would be the difference between a good fan or member and a great one. I see that gman blymike and markjeans must be great fans. they seem to be the only ones that I see on here constantly. there is some others but not that many. what does a great fan do differently from a good fan. do they send gifts. email more often. was just wondering. I have seen from some of the discussion what a bad fan is all about but was wondering what the difference between a great one and a good one was

Hey ISU,

everyone who has fun with us together is a friend, a good fan AND a great fan.
It has nothing to do being member or not. It is the way of talking and understanding each other.
There are only one sort of bad fans....stealing and posting around.

Kisses
Kristina
P.S.: And now, be a friend and have fun with us ;-)

I think the best way to get on in this fantastic forum is just to be yourself. Comment in the threads, start your own threads, be courteous. Don't demand things of the charms. After all, they're all lovely people who take time out of their lives to chat with us. This community on here is like a family, I like to think I have made a large number of friends on here, people that I can talk to on many subjects, not just about porn but about life in general. We don't bite, so join in and become a member of the family.

gman36 wrote:I think the best way to get on in this fantastic forum is just to be yourself. Comment in the threads, start your own threads, be courteous. Don't demand things of the charms. After all, they're all lovely people who take time out of their lives to chat with us. This community on here is like a family, I like to think I have made a large number of friends on here, people that I can talk to on many subjects, not just about porn but about life in general. We don't bite, so join in and become a member of the family.

Very well said, gman.

If I may offer my two cents... Respect and courtesy go a long way in my opinion. My take on this subject is that I don't try to be some kind of "super fan". I spend so much time on here because I really enjoy this board. The fact of the matter is that we as fans are lucky to have such a great group of "super charms" that take the time to socialize with the fans. Which brings me to part two of the subject. I've spent alot of time on other boards and the way that guys treat and talk to web models is f**king appalling. Demanding photos, e-mailing pics of their cranks and just being downright rude. Nobody wants to be treated like that, no matter what the circumstances are.

So my advice...if you want to be a great fan, just be yourself, have fun and be respectful. This board is different than most. All of the members here are genuine whether they're a fan, a charm or a gent. Being a great fan has nothing to do with the quantity of your posts, its more about the quality of them.

I hope to see you around the board.

I agree with a lot of what is being said here. A great fan is someone who contributes well and is respectful and friendly. A lot of the people you mentioned have just been around a lot and post a lot, so they get our attention more. (Not that I want you to flood us! It just takes the time and effort for us to get to know you. <3) And remember, if one Charm ends up not liking you that doesn't mean we all do. I've seen a lot of fans chased off just because they got in a fight with one Charm.
What personally makes a great fan for ME is the friendship while they still have the respect enough to buy something here or there. I adore the friends I've made through my fans but I am NOT going to lie, this is my job and eventually I don't want to talk to someone anymore if they are just getting a free ride out of me. (I'm not talking fanboard here, I'm talking all day emails though!) Gifts are a total plus! Everyone loves gifts. <3 But it's not necessary to buy a girl something to make them your friend.
But if you are thinking of gifting a Charm I know a lot of us give pix/videos in return.

I personally don't see us as fans and charms, but more of a group of people that have come together from all over the world that just like to hang out together. Just look around the forum, read the topics, comment on them if you want and just have fun with it. There is so much to do here, so much to see in new updates, so many great people to meet and git to know. This forum has so many great people on it, and for me I have made some really great friendships on it over the last year and a half. Once you git used to the laid back style of this forum you will not ever want to go back to any of the other ones that are out there. This one is the best one out there because it has the best people on it, this is the A-Team of forums because of the people on it.

I really appreciate what hook had to say, actually

So maybe to you it was rambling, but to a Charm it means something more.

I agree Wendy. I thought it was sweet.
Hugs, All

ISU wrote:thanks for the great answers, some really good ones to. Sultry Serena, Gman and Blycmike had the best ones. some advice to hook though, you need to read Blycmikes post and take it to heart though, he was right, you are all quantity and no quality to your post, your answer was more rambling than anything else, everybody else, great answers and I will take your advice

Didnt know this thread is a "interview" with grades lol
Attacking a good friend isnt the best way to win our hearts
I have a great friendship with hook, and I would not miss any of his kind messages and his gentleman behaviour

I don't see a difference in a good fan and a great fan personally. I enjoy all of my fans who interact with me. I had a hard go at it a couple years ago and stopped answering emails for awhile and that was my fault. I am rebuilding myself on the board and through email. I enjoy talking with my fans a lot. I like to learn what kinds of things you enjoy outside of porn as well as what you like to see on my site. Respect and interaction go a long way with me.

I think hook is a great fan. I don't look at the number of posts and I don't see anything wrong with him playing a "word game". He is respectful of us charms. And he's right, it's like a community, where some of us get naked

I can kinda see what ISU was saying. Don't get me wrong, I loved Hook's post and I think he's a super sweetie but as someone who is used to OTHER types of forums I can see how that would seem off topic. It's pretty common for people to point out when people are rambling or sound off topic in other forums. Easy mistake. I adore you both. <3

I Just Want To Say To ISU, I Am Not Offended In Any Way, I Am Hear To Have Fun And Meet People, It's Time We All Put This Behind Us And Git Back To Having Fun. The Main Reason I Don't Git More Involved In The More Serious Post Is I Have A Hard Time Stringing Together The Right Words And My Spelling Really Sucks, It Is Something That I Am Embarrassed About, But I Didn't Have A Lot Of Education Either. So Let's Git Back To Having Fun, Life's To Short To Be Mad. I Also Want To Say Thanks To All The Charms That Had My Back, Thank You.