I'm pretty sure not following through at all is against SC rules. I can't remember though totally. Dick??
I'm sorry you are going through this. Sometimes delays happen. Even though we are in porn we all still have lives and sometimes they get in the way. Hell, I have TWO custom shoots right now that I wont even try getting to for two weeks because I'm dealing with family right now. (Both guys knew I'd be slow when they ordered though. I like being honest when people order. <3)
But if someone isn't following through at all I'm very sorry. That sucks and looks bad on all of us.