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So a guy has paid for a strap on harness for me that should be getting here soon. We are going to hook up at the end of the month and in the meantime I need to make sure I can get this thing on me nice and snug and kind of get my groove on before getting together with him.

So I ask....how do you do this? Tips? Tricks? Warnings? I want it to be fun for everyone but I have never done this before!

Guessing he's wanting you to peg him with it?

Wow sounds glorious , I would love to break that thing in with you .
Definitely get it as tight as you can on you and plenty of lube , few fingers first to loosen up the hole . I love sucking it so I can get it all wet and it makes me feel sexy and nasty shoving a cock to the back of my throat ! And then just nudge the end in . One in place I will push back and let that wonderful cock spread my hole . I like you to just sit there at first so I can enjoy being stretched and filled , slowly build up a rhythm and soon you will be able to fuck me as hard as you like .
I love it when you pull all the way out till the tip almost pops out and then fire the full length into me .
So jealous he is very lucky

heels1 wrote:Wow sounds glorious , I would love to break that thing in with you .
Definitely get it as tight as you can on you and plenty of lube , few fingers first to loosen up the hole . I love sucking it so I can get it all wet and it makes me feel sexy and nasty shoving a cock to the back of my throat ! And then just nudge the end in . One in place I will push back and let that wonderful cock spread my hole . I like you to just sit there at first so I can enjoy being stretched and filled , slowly build up a rhythm and soon you will be able to fuck me as hard as you like .
I love it when you pull all the way out till the tip almost pops out and then fire the full length into me .
So jealous he is very lucky

Thanks! Very helpful!

Hi Cutie,

I would have him insert a couple different butt plugs at home, starting off with small, working up to the size of your strap on dildo. Have him do this before he comes to you, they are quite comfortable and having one the same size as your dildo will ensure you won't hurt him. Take it out only when you are ready.

As our Heels1 said, lots of quality lube, take it slow at first. I can't say I've done it or received a strap on but I have had the real deal and being prepped and starting slow made it a success!

ohalexSC22 wrote:Hi Cutie,

I would have him insert a couple different butt plugs at home, starting off with small, working up to the size of your strap on dildo. Have him do this before he comes to you, they are quite comfortable and having one the same size as your dildo will ensure you won't hurt him. Take it out only when you are ready.

As our Heels1 said, lots of quality lube, take it slow at first. I can't say I've done it or received a strap on but I have had the real deal and being prepped and starting slow made it a success!

Thanks OhAlex! Some really good pointers there. I will make sure he's practicing!