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Just wondering how many sex partners people have had. I wonder what would be considered normal today?

Does it count if you are whacking off in the bushes outside their house watching them through binos?

Edit: asking for a friend of course ...

CrumblingPerv wrote:Does it count if you are whacking off in the bushes outside their house watching them through binos?

Edit: asking for a friend of course ...

lol, that should count! For your friend of course...

One.

I married the man of my dreams and am still married to him today.

I am a swinger, so I can't really say. I have had a lot. My husband and I are dearly in love and only play a couple times a year.....but there are always multiples. I went to one party recently and was part of a kind of gang bang style situation and was with 6 guys in two hours. We always practice safe sex... 100%. So yeah....I am probably the LAST person to ask.

Who the heck knows what's "Normal" today, especially among charms, LOL. Since I've been married, I've been with six, I think. A few more from before I was married, so maybe a dozen total. Not too skanky We're a lifestyle couple but I don't full swap often. We love to go to the parties and dance and cut up and we have a small circle of friends that we do a bit more with. Still, most of that is soft swap. Since we've started swinging, always safe sex except for oral. And on that note, I really haven't had too many more partners when you factor in oral. You can catch a few of the nastier STDs that way too.

Lately I've been posing quite a bit with my best friend's husband which is a weird and fun dynamic. We've had sex but not on my site. He has a terrible time with safe sex, he just can't seem to stay hard with a condom on. Since we play with them often, we've all thought about getting an updated STD panel and then having some bare fun with each other. My last check was over a year ago.

There are plenty of very safe ways to have sexual fun and limit your number of partners. That's one of the things that's positive about masturbation and porn. You can also meet people and do same room sex. It's like a live porn show with actors that really care about each other.

Ms Frolicker wrote: ... he just can't seem to stay hard with a condom on.

I have the exact same problem. I hate the bloody things.

I had 2 people before I got married. My husband was my second. Then about 8 years into our marriage we became open. It was threesomes and doing fun things for the website. I am at around 20 now. We did do full panel STD test when we were having fun. Ive only been with my husband the past 4 years. Having a son and getting out is rare now.

Do you still count if you didn't cum more than 4 times?lol

SandraSC2 wrote:Do you still count if you didn't cum more than 4 times?lol

If we go by this, then my number has dropped significantly.

I've had 3... to tell you the truth I'm not sure how/what to feel about that.

There is this site you can see how you stack up against your age and gender.
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/mone ... ge_or.html

One.

12... could be 22 if you added Rosey Palmer and Lefty Lucy (and both of their 5 sisters) to the mix?!?

haha for a friend

In my college days I hit over 1000...this is the first time I've ever admitted that too :O

We are swingers and attend parties often. Been in Lifestyle for over 23 yrs. So, a lot with both sexes! Kayla

are we classing partners as boyfriends/husband, or anyone you have had sex with, if its the first one put me down for 3, 2 Boyfriends and a husband. After that I have been dogging a few times and parties and been alive in the 90's so could not give you a number on that.

randiloveSC1 wrote:

CrumblingPerv wrote:Does it count if you are whacking off in the bushes outside their house watching them through binos?

Edit: asking for a friend of course ...

lol, that should count! For your friend of course...

LMAO I just spit out my coffee. You guys are hilarious.

Only 2. I am a bit shy.

footcraze wrote:Only 2. I am a bit shy.

Don't be. I'm at one and happy staying there