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Erika Lust said that sex should be "something as natural as food, and pornography like gastronomy."

Let's consider restaurant manners, cooking practices, healthy eating and everything that relates to food and how this impacts our day to day lives.
Then let's draw a parallel with sex, bed manners, safety sex practices, healthy porn -doing and viewing / producing and consuming- etc. and its impact in our daily lives.

Food for thought?

Your post, as your posts always are, is very thought provoking. Certainly something worth considering. However in my situation if I were to use food as a simile for sex then I am on a starvation diet

CrumblingPerv wrote:Your post, as your posts always are, is very thought provoking. Certainly something worth considering. However in my situation if I were to use food as a simile for sex then I am on a starvation diet

How about gastronomy? Which cuisine do you prefer mostly?

Doris_Dawn wrote:How about gastronomy? Which cuisine do you prefer mostly?

Gastronomically speaking, I would say that my favoured dishes are Mexican and Eastern Mediterranean/Middle Eastern. I enjoy a number of different ones, like Italian, Indian, Thai, South American and Chinese. But the two I stated are my favourites. How about yourself?

CrumblingPerv wrote:

Doris_Dawn wrote:How about gastronomy? Which cuisine do you prefer mostly?

Gastronomically speaking, I would say that my favoured dishes are Mexican and Eastern Mediterranean/Middle Eastern. I enjoy a number of different ones, like Italian, Indian, Thai, South American and Chinese. But the two I stated are my favourites. How about yourself?

Well, my gastronomical preferences are quite odd, but they'll fit, most of them, under the Mediterranean umbrella. This because extra virgin olive oil is never missing from the table. Then, I learned that sugar is not edible and actually a harmful substance, so I use only fruit to make jams and jellies (pectin is quite precious).

Once in a blue moon, I try to go vegan, or vegetarian, but that's not happening with a religious passion, because I follow Oscar Wilde's saying, that I can resist anything but temptation. So, when an egg, or a steak tempts, then I bite, of course. The fabulous thing is when bakeries won't make me feel any attraction -which I can't affirm about ice creams or a cute succulent chocolate cake. At least I stop to just watch them through the windows. Which leads us from fancy food to porn.

So, if I must make most of the food that I eat, same goes from gastronomy to pornography: I make much more than I consume. And I enjoy it this way.
My favorite position is 69, or when he's massaging my pussy, giving me a hand, or a tongue.

What is your take on porn?, your fav photos or scenes to watch?
Kiss,
Doris

Doris_Dawn wrote:What is your take on porn?, your fav photos or scenes to watch?
Kiss,
Doris

Answering this I think will be challenging because in the realm of pornography I find a wide range of things very enticing. But I will try ...

The first for me it is the who rather than the what. Or to put another way, I can't quantify a formula in terms of clothing/nudity, or positions, or acts which are going to guarantee to make me stand to attention. There are some things which will shift the odds a bit (which I will elaborate on later) but the model is the single biggest factor. I find myself attracted to a wide range of women - I don't feel I have any boundaries as far as age, or race, or size, or hair colour/length, or any other metrics of appearance are concerned. I'm just fascinated and delighted by the variations that you all have.

Things which are likely to increase my interest/arousal:

- does she look like she is enjoying what she is doing (in as much as one can tell with these things)?
- eye contact. This is a big factor for me.
- in the case of video, hearing her voice or any other sounds she might be making is also a major thing for me.
- is she "known" to me, such as via this board, or email or otherwise - that really adds an extra spark.

I mentioned earlier about things that might shift the odds a bit ... in no particular order:

- knee high socks, ideally multicoloured. I literally have no idea the origins of this for me, but for some reason I find it very arousing.
- looking back over her shoulder - I suppose if I try to deconstruct this, it would be as follows: I love eye contact (as mentioned above) and I also love ladies' asses. So this sort of pose hits a sweet spot.
- for models with long hair I really love to see them holding it up, or wearing it up. The neck and behind the ears are a magnet for me, it's an area I love to zero in on and lifting the hair exposes that.

As far as anything else is concerned, it really depends on my mood. I roam between soft and hardcore, solo or lesbianism. These are less important factors than what I have listed above.

So I suppose (from reading the above) my ideal pose is a model holding her hair up while looking over her shoulder and wearing multicoloured knee high socks!

Hope this has been of interest

I personally find sex to be as necessary as food is to the general health of my body. In some cases I would rather have sex than eat, but I also like to involve the two, making the act of eating and the types of food involved part of the foreplay. "9 1/2 Weeks" was one of my favorite movies with the kitchen scene remaining the most embedded in my memory.

CrumblingPerv wrote:

Doris_Dawn wrote:What is your take on porn?, your fav photos or scenes to watch?
Kiss,
Doris

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So I suppose (from reading the above) my ideal pose is a model holding her hair up while looking over her shoulder and wearing multicoloured knee high socks!

Hope this has been of interest

I enjoyed reading your reply and you inspired me for a few coming photo shootings.
Thank you for the insights. xoxox

CrumblingPerv wrote:

Doris_Dawn wrote:What is your take on porn?, your fav photos or scenes to watch?
Kiss,
Doris

So I suppose (from reading the above) my ideal pose is a model holding her hair up while looking over her shoulder and wearing multicoloured knee high socks!

Hope this has been of interest

Hi again, took a few minutes this morning to pose for you. Here are three poses in one image, going wide, best you click on it to open in its own tab, or download it?
How close to the ideal pose? Cannot wait for your answer.

cougarjulesSC4 wrote:I personally find sex to be as necessary as food is to the general health of my body. In some cases I would rather have sex than eat, but I also like to involve the two, making the act of eating and the types of food involved part of the foreplay. "9 1/2 Weeks" was one of my favorite movies with the kitchen scene remaining the most embedded in my memory.

Yes, sex and food are necessary to our general health. It matters more what you eat than how much.

Doris_Dawn wrote:Hi again, took a few minutes this morning to pose for you. Here are three poses in one image, going wide, best you click on it to open in its own tab, or download it?
How close to the ideal pose? Cannot wait for your answer.

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Well helloooooooooo

I don't know if I can do justice in describing how well you have captured my weaknesses Cute socks! But I would say the last of the three really grabbed my attention. My stirrings kicked into high gear when I saw it. If I am being honest they still are just writing about it. You captured it to perfection. I'll try to refrain from being too graphic despite the temptation to do so

I'm so flattered you did this - thank you so much. You now know how to flick my switches

CrumblingPerv wrote:
I'm so flattered you did this - thank you so much. You now know how to flick my switches

Awww, I am so pleased to read that the poses had the desired effect.

Good food is great but sometimes you've gotta just eat what's there

vanillacreamSC1 wrote:Good food is great but sometimes you've gotta just eat what's there

Agree with you!!!

vanillacreamSC1 wrote:Good food is great but sometimes you've gotta just eat what's there

Genuine LOL