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Please tell me what's wrong with my look. Do not be afraid of being honest, I have a tough shell. Do I need to lose weight, am I too muscular, do I need to cut or die my hair? Should I try a new look? Do I look too old? I want to improve my appearance. Being online is different than in real life. I turn heads every where I go, but not online. What can I improve?

Hey Chinglan,

I have to say that generally the ladies that I've enjoyed the most over the years are the ones who were happy with being themselves. Not the ones that changed elements about themselves to try and attract more fans, but the ones that have stayed true to themselves. The ones that enjoy and love themselves just as they are and don't change seeking fame or fortune. The way you are right now is perfect and if people, fans, etc. don't appreciate your current look, they aren't going to appreciate your changed look. You have to wake up in the morning and be happy what who you are and what you see. If you aren't, then change, if you are, stay true to yourself. My recommendation is that you don't chase fans, you allow fans to chase you. You're the STAR and if we don't like you as you are, that's our fault, not yours. Stay true to you and the fans, support, etc. will come. And if they don't come, you are still true to who you are, you didn't change for someone that may or may not support you. You will have changed because you wanted to, not because a few fans (not family, not friends, not big financial supporters) suggested that you do so.

I appreciate who you are just as you are, but if you start to change due to a few fans suggestions, I may not like that because you aren't being true to who you really are!!!


Loke

Thank you for your honest reply. I was just curious what is different about my look in real life than on the website. I'm a bit to stubborn and old to change dramatically, but I am open to improving my look as I have always done. Hair color, hair cut, weight change. Small changes, but nothing drastic that would alter who I am in the inside. However, financial supporters are the ones that pay the bills. With out them, I would not be here. So if they have requests that can benefit me, I would appreciate it. I would not mind changing certain looks that would help me remain here without leaving. Although, it does not all have to be about looks. I am also asking about requests or my photo updates. Is there some kind of fetish I missed? More feet or stalking updates? Small stuff like that.

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Thanks love. I actually do a lot of middle fingers in my photos because thats my thing. lol, but not everyone. But great idea to do everyone. Thanks

you are amazing!

i have the opposite, no one looks at me in real public life..
and on line ba boom!~

so it is not you
dont forget everything in life is a projection
people project their own image of their stuff
onto us
so you are lovely in my opinion
and thats from a neutral position

i just looked at your site
wow
you are fuking hott!
do your thing
i just found the background on your site a bit busy
but your photos
are amazing!!!

Thanks Luv. I just changed it because it was so plain before. lol. Your fucking Hot too.

Nothing wrong with you, Your a cutie. I am a charm almost 16 years and
I still have no idea what works.
Have fun and enjoy, I gave up trying to figure it out.
Hugs, Alexus Lin

Thank you Alexus.

There is ZERO wrong with you! Now that you even ventured into wrestling, you're 100% perfect and the perfect weight/size!

Thank you Luve

Such a shame you left SC, you were an absolute Doll to work with and beautiful inside and out.
Sefton Misses you
Come BACK !!!!