by DDDVIOAUS » Mon Dec 06, 2021 7:00 pm
I thought I would add another male perspective. I have always found those scars sexy to a great degree. Been with several ladies, and most appreciated their birth marks, as I would explain to them. Wheb being with a woman for the first time, who has one of these scars, or any scar, I do not ignore it, nor do I ask about it. I compliment her body for the work of nature art it is, and make sure to pay attention that that area in foreplay and complimenting it. Always letting them know, it is part of them, and loving all of them, means the scar as well. To me, it is not something that should be hidden , it should be celebrated. Having a tattoo over it, might actually draw attention to that area as well. In the end, you need to do what will make you feel better about your body image, and if covering that you should, and have every right too. Or you could not and wear the scar proudly as a product of doing the greatest thing a human can do giving birth. My first wife, called them her medals ( she had 4 kids before I met her, and because of different docs, 2 and parts of a third different scar. You seem like a great gal, am sure you will know what is best for who you are and do accordingly.