martinae wrote:The Issue Isn't With The 90% Of GuysThat Would Be Cool WiIt, First Off There Is The 10% That Would Become Stalkers, Etc. Secondly The Problem Is Other Peoples Perception Of Web Modles. I Knew Some One Who's Husband Had To Quit HIS Job Because Someone Found His wifes Website. People Didn't react Well To It, They Had Trash Thrown On Their Lawn, And Were Pretty Much Ostracised. personally, I Don't Get It As Whoever Found Her Site Had To Be Looking At It In The First Place. It Is Sad But That is The World We Live In. I Will Get Off My Soap Box now.
That is so true.
In my first year as a charm, I had a "web" stalker. This guy was an ex cop! he had ways of finding info about me! He harassed me for 6 months! Luckily he never showed up on my doorstep, but living in fear, is living in fear, period.
Speaking as a charm who has been recognized several times in public, I have to say that it can be a little nerve wracking. You never know what the guy is going to do, to say, how's he's going to act. One time I was with my sister, husband, kids, and nieces and nephews at an amusement park! The guy was cool and didn't come over to me, rather he emailed me that evening and told me he saw me there. <which was kinda freaky in itself because he told me he watched me eat my lunch there and proceeded to tell me what I had eaten and how long it took me to eat it
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I know I've gotten some really horrible emails too, so yea, there are wacko's out there. Not just emails that are scary, but emails from guys who think SC is a dating site or something and all they have to do is email me and set up an appointment for me to fuck them.
And yes, then there's the whole morality issue of what I do. A lot of people wouldn't be ok with it at all. Not that I care what other people think, however this is the real world, and there could be consequences for my family if some people found out what I do.